Holiday celebrations often revolve around eating, but
for those with food restrictions, that can produce an incongruous feeling when
dining with friends and loved ones: loneliness.
People with restricted diets -- due to allergies,
health issues or religious or cultural norms -- are more likely to feel lonely
when they can't share in what others are eating, new Cornell University
research shows.
"Despite being physically present with others,
having a food restriction leaves people feeling left out because they are not
able to take part in bonding over the meal," said Kaitlin Woolley,
assistant professor of marketing in the Samuel Curtis Johnson Graduate School
of Management and lead author of the research.
Across seven studies and controlled experiments,
researchers found that food restrictions predicted loneliness among both
children and adults.
The research also offers the first evidence, Woolley
said, that having a food restriction causes increased loneliness. For example,
in one experiment, assigning unrestricted individuals to experience a food
restriction increased reported feelings of loneliness. That suggests such
feelings are not driven by non-food issues or limited to picky eaters, Woolley
said.
"We can strip that away and show that assigning
someone to a restriction or not can have implications for their feeling of
inclusion in the group meal," she said.
Further evidence came from a survey of observers of
the Jewish holiday of Passover. When reminded during the holiday of the
leavened foods they couldn't enjoy with others, participants' loneliness
increased. Yet, within their own similarly restricted group, they felt a
stronger bond.
Bonding over meals is an inherently social experience,
Woolley notes. In previous research, she found that strangers felt more
connected and trusting of each other when they shared the same food, and eating
food from the same plate increased cooperation between strangers.
But when restricted from sharing in the meal, people
suffer "food worries," Woolley said. They fret about what they can
eat and how others might judge them for not fitting in.
Those worries generated a degree of loneliness
comparable to that reported by unmarried or low-income adults, and stronger
than that experienced by schoolchildren who were not native English speakers,
according to the research. Compared with non-restricted individuals, having a
restriction increased reported loneliness by 19%. People felt lonelier regardless
of how severe their restriction was, or whether their restriction was imposed
or voluntary.
The study concluded that food restrictions and
loneliness are on the rise and "may be related epidemics," warranting
further research.
To date, Woolley said, children have been the primary
focus of research on the effects of food restrictions. A nationally
representative survey she analyzed from the Centers for Disease Control did not
track the issue among adults.
But increasingly, she said, food restrictions are
being carried into adulthood, or adults are choosing restricted diets such as
gluten-free, vegetarian and vegan for health or ethical reasons. Up to 30% of
all participants in her research deal with restrictions, Woolley said.
"This is a problem that I don't think people are
quite aware of," she said, "and that has implications for people's
ability to connect with others over eating."
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